Can Men and Women Be Purely Platonic Friends?

My question for you: Can heterosexual men and women be purely platonic friends?

According to my informal, unscientific interviews of people that I know I have come to find some very interesting trends.  Every single man I have talked to, without exception, has said men and women can never be pure friends.  Men believe that there is always a spark one way or another, even in the most innocent seeming friendship.

Women have a completely different perspective: Most women believe that they can be friends with a man who does not want to have sex with them or vice-versa.  The women I talked to usually would cite “Bill” or “John”… their friend who had been their friend for X number of years and had never showed any interest or made a move.

So who is right?  Can men have purely platonic relationships with women?  Or are men usually just hanging out as friends with a woman and waiting for her to “slip up”, even just once?  I would love to hear what you guys think about this issue.

Below is a pretty funny cartoon from xkcd.com:

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POSTED BY Joel on Dec 15 under Debate

4 Responses to “Can Men and Women Be Purely Platonic Friends?”

  1. 1
    Joe Says:

    Wow.. that cartoon is pretty much sums it up! And accurately too!

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    Kang Says:

    it seems most who attempt a platonic relationship gravitate towards this model shown in the cartoon. the male eventually wants sth or expects sth from the female. despite his seemingly selfless behaviors. a conflicting intention… most of us unfortunately repeat this cycle. arrgh

  3. 3
    steph Says:

    Sure, if there is a large age difference, homosexuality is involved, or they are siblings. Otherwise, there is definitely room for sexual involvement.

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    pick.up.women.in.bars Says:

    Hi, solid article, you put up nonetheless if you don’t mind I’d sum few remarks around approaches young women or guys. Especially it can be hard when it follows to man woman relationships. The essential thing is your posture, which should be fresh and active. If you have an attitude like that, any soul shouldn’t find any difficulties that you have addressing as viewing. When you start a conversation, you usually need to require safe queries that are true not to cause her any uncomfortableness. Once the conversation goes some momentum, you can take more personalized wonders. A good trick is to memorise some questions she made a point of so whenever the conversation slows, you can mention one of these questions.

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