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Most Acrimonious Divorce Ever- Randall & Linda Gross

Tuesday, April 20th, 2010
Posted in Joel by Joel Gross

I looked up the official court records for my parents, Randall Gross & Linda Gross.  What I found was a dry look at 12 years of a painful ongoing battle…. divorce, remarriage, divorce again (and that leaves out 4 unofficial breakups!), 2 restraining orders, domestic abuse conviction (not shown), continuous child custody battles, and official declarations from most family members, friends, neighbors, church members, church pastors.

The most horrifying thing is that this is just the tip of the iceberg… 95% of the war occurred outside of official oversight: Drug abuse, backstabbing, child abuse, beatings, alcoholism, alienation of all family & friends, rape, and unlimited hatred.

Results:

  • 1 old man filled with hate, bitterness and despair
  • 1 crazy, damaged old woman without much understanding of reality anymore and a meth-scarred brain
  • 4 boys who haven’t spoken to their father in years and have no intentions of doing so again
  • Dying parents of the old man whom he has discarded
  • Aging parents of old woman raising her youngest son
Filing Date Filing Access Pages
5/28/98 FILING FEE RECEIVED Public
5/28/98 SUMMONS & PET FOR DISSOLUTION Public
5/28/98 ORDER SETTING CASE SCHEDULE Public
5/28/98 MOTION AND AFFIDAVIT/DECLARATION Public
5/28/98 NOTE FOR CALENDAR Public
5/28/98 REQUEST FOR ASSIGN TO CIVIL TRACK Public
5/28/98 FINANCIAL DECLARATION Public
5/28/98 PROPOSED PARENTING PLAN Public
6/5/98 CONFIRMATION OF SERVICE Public
6/5/98 AFFIDAVIT/DECLARATION OF SERVICE Public
6/11/98 NOTICE OF APPEARANCE Public
6/11/98 CHILD SUPPORT WORKSHEET Public
6/11/98 DECLARATION OF RANDALL G GROSS Public
6/11/98 FINANCIAL DECLARATION Public
6/11/98 PROPOSED PARENTING PLAN Public
6/11/98 DECLARATION OF PETITIONER RESP Public
7/6/98 MOTION AND AFFIDAVIT/DECLARATION Public
7/6/98 NOTE FOR CALENDAR Public
7/6/98 PROPOSED PARENTING PLAN Public
7/8/98 NOTE FOR CALENDAR Public
7/17/98 DECLARATION IN SUPPORT Public
7/17/98 DECLARATION BY REPONDENT Public
7/21/98 DECLARATION OF LINDA GROSS Public
7/23/98 NOTICE OF WITHDRAWAL OF ATTORNEY Public
9/2/98 NOTE FOR CALENDAR Public
9/11/98 ORDER FOR WARRANT W/WORKSHEETS Public
9/11/98 FINDINGS OF FACT&CONCLUSIONS OF LAW Public
9/11/98 DECREE OF DISSOLUTION 6 PGS Public
9/11/98 PARENTING PLAN (FINAL ORDER) Public
9/11/98 CLERK’S MINUTE ENTRY Public
8/10/99 PET ORD FOR PROTECTION Public
8/10/99 TEMP ORD FOR PROTECTION Public
8/10/99 PET ORD FOR PROTECTION Public
8/10/99 TEMP ORD FOR PROTECTION Public
8/12/99 RETURN OF SERVICE SERVED Public
8/12/99 RETURN OF SERVICE SERVED Public
8/24/99 ORD FOR PROTECTION CONTESTED PERM Public
8/24/99 MOTION HEARING Public
8/24/99 ORD FOR PROTECTION CONTESTED PERM Public
8/24/99 MOTION HEARING Public
9/10/99 FILING FEE RECEIVED Public
9/10/99 SUMMONS & PET FOR DISSOLUTION Public
9/10/99 ORDER SETTING CASE SCHEDULE Public
9/10/99 MOTION FOR ORDER TO SHOW CAUSE Public
9/10/99 TEMP REST ORD & ORD TO SHO CAUS Public
9/10/99 DECLARATION OF CAROLYN MARTIN Public
9/10/99 NOTE FOR CALENDAR Public
9/10/99 REQUEST FOR ASSIGN TO CIVIL TRACK Public
9/10/99 PROPOSED PARENTING PLAN Public
9/10/99 DECLARATION OF CINDY WILLETT Public
9/10/99 DECLARATION OF ANGELINA MONNOHAN Public
9/10/99 DECLARATION OF MARSHA MANGAN Public
9/10/99 DECLARATION OF RANDALL GROSS Public
9/10/99 DECLARATION OF DENISE GREESEY Public
9/14/99 AFFIDAVIT/DECLARATION OF SERVICE Public
9/22/99 NOTICE OF APPEARANCE Public
9/27/99 TEMP REST ORD & ORD TO SHO CAUS Public
9/27/99 NOTE FOR CALENDAR Public
9/27/99 CLERK’S MINUTE ENTRY Public
10/7/99 RESPONSE Public
10/7/99 DECLARATION OF LINDA GROSS Public
10/7/99 CHILD SUPPORT WORKSHEET Public
10/7/99 MOTION AND AFFIDAVIT/DECLARATION Public
10/7/99 DECLARATION OF FOREST NEWSOM Public
10/7/99 FINANCIAL DECLARATION Public
10/7/99 PROPOSED PARENTING PLAN Public
10/8/99 DECLARATION OF RANDALL GROSS – SUPP Public
10/8/99 DECLARATION OF CAROLYN MARTIN Public
10/8/99 DECLARATION OF CINDY WILLETT Public
10/8/99 DECLARATION OF MARSHA MANGAN Public
10/11/99 NOTICE OF POTENTIAL GAL Public
10/11/99 PARENTING PLAN – TEMPORARY Public
10/11/99 ORDER FOR SUPPORT W/WRKSHT – TEMP Public
10/11/99 TEMPORARY ORDER Public
10/11/99 CLERK’S MINUTE ENTRY Public
10/11/99 FINANCIAL DECLARATION Public
10/12/99 DOCUMENTS FAXED TO STATE REGISTRY Public
11/3/99 ORDER APPOINTING GUARDIAN AD LITEM Public
11/4/99 DECLARATION OF CAROLYN MARTIN Public
12/1/99 ORD APPOINTING GAL *AMENDED* Public
1/6/00 NOTICE OF INTENT TO WITHDRAW Public
1/13/00 ORDER AUTHOR REMOVAL OF COURT FILE Public
2/7/00 NOTICE OF APPEARANCE Public
2/7/00 NOTICE OF ABSENCE/UNAVAILABILITY Public
2/9/00 NOTICE OF ISSUE Public
2/9/00 MOTION TO CONTINUE Public
2/16/00 ORDER AMENDING CASE SCHEDULE Public
2/29/00 NOTE FOR CALENDAR Public
2/29/00 DECLARATION OF LINDA GROSS Public
2/29/00 MOTION AND AFFIDAVIT/DECLARATION Public
2/29/00 PROPOSED PARENTING PLAN Public
2/29/00 FINANCIAL DECLARATION Public
3/17/00 DECLARATION OF CAROLYN MARTIN Public
3/17/00 DECLARATION OF RANDALL GROSS Public
3/23/00 DECLARATION OF RANDALL GROSS Public
3/23/00 AFFIDAVIT OF ATTY RE FEES Public
3/23/00 ORDER FOR SUPPORT W/WRKSHT Public
3/23/00 TEMPORARY ORDER Public
3/23/00 NOTICE OF WITHDRAWAL OF ATTORNEY Public
3/23/00 CLERK’S MINUTE ENTRY Public
3/23/00 CLERK’S MINUTE ENTRY Public
3/23/00 DECLARATION OF LINDA GROSS Public
3/24/00 DOCUMENTS FAXED TO STATE REGISTRY Public
4/24/00 NOTICE OF ATTORNEY S CLAIM OF LIEN Public
6/9/00 NOTE FOR CALENDAR Public
6/9/00 DECLARATION OF JUSTIN GROSS Public
6/9/00 COPY OF LETTER FROM DOCTOR Public
6/9/00 MOTION AND AFFIDAVIT/DECLARATION Public
6/9/00 MOTION FOR ORDER TO SHOW CAUSE Public
6/9/00 TEMP REST ORD & ORD TO SHO CAUS Public
6/9/00 DECLARATION OF LINDA GROSS Public
6/9/00 PROPOSED PARENTING PLAN Public
6/9/00 DECLARATION IN SUPPORT Public
6/16/00 DECLARATION OF ANGELA OLSEN Public
6/16/00 PETITION FOR WRIT OF HABEAS CORPUS Public
6/16/00 ORDER DIRECTING ISSUANCE OF WRIT Public
6/16/00 WRIT OF HABEAS CORPUS Public
6/16/00 BENCH WARRANT 2 Public 3
6/23/00 LETTER Public 1
6/23/00 ******* VOLUME 2 ******* MICK Public 11
6/27/00 SHERIFF S RETURN OF SERVICE Public 6
6/28/00 DECLARATION OF EMELY SHOLSETH Public 7
6/28/00 RESPONSE & CROSS MOTION Public 2
9/27/00 NOTICE OF APPEARANCE Public 3
10/9/00 REPORT OF GUARDIAN AD LITEM Public 1
10/11/00 ASSIGNED TO DEPT 6 BUCKNER Public 1
10/11/00 AFFIDAVIT OF PREJUDICE Public 2
10/11/00 INFORMATION PRETRIAL Public 3
10/11/00 ASSIGNED TO DEPT 17 Public 16
10/11/00 WITNESS RECORD Public 1
10/11/00 NON-JURY TRIAL Public 13
10/20/00 NOTICE OF ISSUE Public 4
10/23/00 ORDER AUTHOR REMOVAL OF COURT FILE Public 4
10/23/00 NOTICE OF APPEARANCE Public 11
10/31/00 VERBATIM RPT TRANSMITTED IN CT FILE Public 1
11/9/00 ORDER FOR SUPPORT W/WORKSHEETS Public 4
11/9/00 FINDINGS OF FACT&CONCLUSIONS OF LAW Public 3
11/9/00 DECREE OF DISSOLUTION 4 Public 6
11/9/00 PARENTING PLAN (FINAL ORDER) Public 4
11/9/00 MOTION HEARING Public 4
11/9/00 JUDGMENT BACK CHILD SUPPORT 11/99-11/00 Public 2
11/13/00 DOCUMENTS FAXED TO STATE REGISTRY Public
11/20/00 NOTICE OF ISSUE Public 5
11/20/00 DECLARATION OF LINDA GROSS W/ATCHMT Public 4
11/20/00 MOTION FOR RECONSIDERATION Public 2
11/29/00 DECLARATION OF RANDALL GROSS 2 Public 7
11/30/00 DECLARATION OF LINDA GROSS Public 1
12/1/00 MOTION HEARING Public 2
12/13/00 ORDER FOR SUPPORT W/WORKSHEETS Public 2
12/13/00 ORDER RE RECONSIDERATION Public 1
12/13/00 EX-PARTE ACTION WITH ORDER Public 1
12/13/00 EX-PARTE ACTION WITH ORDER Public 4
12/13/00 JUDGMENT – BACK SUPPORT AT 12% Public 1
12/14/00 DOCUMENTS FAXED TO STATE REGISTRY Public 3
1/24/01 NOTICE OF INTENT TO WITHDRAW Public 2
12/21/01 FILING FEE RECEIVED Public 1
12/21/01 SUMMONS Public 1
12/21/01 PETITION/MOTION TO MODIFY Public
12/21/01 DECLARATION OF LINDA OTYSON Public
1/9/02 AFFIDAVIT OF SERVICE Public
1/11/02 NOTICE OF APPEARANCE Public
2/7/02 DECLARATION OF RANDALL GROSS Public
2/7/02 FINANCIAL DECLARATION Public
2/7/02 SEALED FINANCIAL SOURCE DOCUMENT Sealed
2/11/02 RESPONSE Public
7/18/02 DECLARATION OF CAROLYN MARTIN Public
7/18/02 NOTE OF ISSUE Public
7/22/02 NOTE OF ISSUE Public
8/7/02 AFFIDAVIT/DECLARATION OF PETITIONER Public
8/14/02 DECLARATION OF RANDALL GROSS Public
8/14/02 AFFIDAVIT/DECLARATION OF RESPONDENT Public
8/16/02 CLERK’S MINUTE ENTRY Public
8/16/02 ORDER FOR SUPPORT WITH WORKSHEETS Public
8/16/02 FINDINGS, OF FACT AND CONCLUSIONS OF LAW Public
8/16/02 ORDER ON MODIFICATION Public
6/25/04 LETTER FROM LINDA OTYSON Public
6/25/04 LETTER FROM DEPARTMENT 6 Public
6/25/04 LETTER FROM LINDA OTYSON Public
6/25/04 LETTER FROM LINDA OTYSON Public
7/19/04 DECLARATION OF PETITIONER Public
7/19/04 MOTION AND AFFIDAVIT Public
7/19/04 TEMPORARY RESTRAINING ORDER AND ORDER TO SHOW CAUSE Public
7/19/04 SUMMONS Public
7/19/04 FILING FEE RECEIVED $30.00 Public
7/19/04 DECLARATION OF MICHAEL K STRUB Public
7/19/04 PETITION FOR MODIFICATION Public
7/19/04 CONFIDENTIAL INFORMATION FORM Sealed
7/19/04 PROPOSED PARENTING PLAN Public
7/19/04 NOTE FOR COMMISSIONERS CALENDAR Public 129
7/21/04 NOTICE OF ABSENCE/UNAVAILABILITY Public
7/29/04 AFFIDAVIT/DECLARATION OF SERVICE Public
8/6/04 NOTICE OF APPEARANCE Public 3
8/6/04 NOTE FOR COMMISSIONERS CALENDAR Public 1
8/13/04 TEMPORARY ORDER FOR PROTECTION Public 1
8/13/04 PETITION FOR ORDER FOR PROTECTION Public 1
8/13/04 LAW ENFORCEMENT INFORMATION SHEET Restricted 1
8/13/04 CONFIDENTIAL INFORMATION FORM – CHILDREN Sealed 1
8/13/04 CHILD CUSTODY INFORMATION SHEET Public 1
8/13/04 PENDING RETURN OF SERVICE Restricted 1
8/18/04 RETURN OF SERVICE Public 1
8/27/04 TEMPORARY ORDER Public 1
8/27/04 NOTICE OF APPEARANCE Public
8/27/04 CLERK’S MINUTE ENTRY Public 5
8/27/04 ORDER DENYING MOTION Public
9/17/04 APPEARANCE PRO SE Public
9/17/04 LETTER FROM CLAUDE/LINDA O’TYSON Public
10/18/04 NOTICE OF INTENT TO WITHDRAW Public
10/21/04 NOTICE OF HEARING Public 7
10/21/04 NOTICE OF HEARING Public 1
10/28/04 AFFIDAVIT/DECLARATION OF SERVICE Public 4
10/28/04 AFFIDAVIT/DECLARATION OF SERVICE Public 14
11/9/04 AGREED ORDER TERMINATING PROTECTION ORDER Public 5
11/9/04 AGREED ORDER TERMINATING PROTECTION ORDER Public
12/22/04 ARCHIVED RECORD Public
12/22/04 ARCHIVED RECORD Public
7/21/09 ARCHIVED RECORD Public
10/23/09 ORDER FOR HEARING RE: STATUS AND DISMISSAL Public 7
11/23/09 ORDER DISMISSING MODIFICATION Public 1
4
14
11/23/09 FAMILY LAW COURT – ONE (Rm. 217A)
8/27/04 C2- UNCONTESTED DISSOLUTION (Rm. 105 )
8/31/04 C – SHOW CAUSE-MASTER CAL Cancelled/Stricken
8/16/02 DEPT 06 – JUDGE BUCKNER Ex-Parte w/ Order Held